a decision

so i've decided that it's better to set a low expectation of people, to accept what they can give. to try not to be disappointed when i don't get what i expected. to give what i can. to be a friend. to be a good person. to relax.

but the case will be different with the people that are really important. the people that i love. but i think that's a good thing. the people you care for a lot are special, they should be treated differently. plus you should be able to tell them up front what you feel and how they affect you.

so it's all good :) just wish realizing things doesn't have to be so hard and complicated!!!